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 4个隐形人影响着你们的性生活

为什么不能拥有一次美好的sex!因为自己?因为他?因为晚餐难吃、枕头不舒服、月光刺眼、香薰味怪异、家具摆放不合理?好像都不是!那你有没有想过,以下这4个隐形破坏者,也可能要对你不甚愉快的负责。

  有时候,SEX会让我们由衷地赞叹“啊!生活真美好”,有时候它又让我们沮丧地把枕头扔向墙角并大喊一声“生活烂透了!”。

  其实,不管赞叹还是沮丧,全取决于你脑内那一份神秘的“sex档案”—国外的一些心理学家也将它称为“sexual blueprint(性蓝图)”

  简单来说,它就是大脑对于性这件事给自己准备的一本参考书,你从小到大所有对“性”的概念、感觉、认知大脑会统统记录在这个档案里,然后根据它来指导和影响你的每一次性体验。所以,怎么书写这份“蓝图”可是一件关系到我们终身“性福”的大事呢!

  作为蓝图的“主要执笔者”,自己去主动学习正确的性知识、进行当然是最重要的,可还有4个你意想不到的人,他们就像隐形“执笔者”,也会在你的“蓝图”上抹上重重的色彩!如果忽略了他们,你可能一直都要陷入向墙角扔枕头的悲惨境界中啦!

  隐形人NO.1:父母

  每个人都是基因的产物,遗传的奇妙之处就在于你天生就被打上了“喜欢这个”或“讨厌那个”的烙印。性,其实也是一样。

  可以想象,一个从来没有见到爸爸妈妈亲吻拥抱对方,甚至从来没见过他们拉手逛街的孩子,和一个跟朋友笑嘻嘻地抱怨“老两口都多大岁数了,说的话让我都觉得肉麻”的孩子,对恋爱和性的认识肯定是不一样的。

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  分清“正确”和“习惯”:

  别以为“习惯了”就是“正确的”,如果确定某个有关sex的知识或者体验是错误的,并不适合你和你的恋人,即使它已经成为了你生活习惯的一部分,或者是家庭传统的一部分,也要坚决将其剔除出你的卧室!

  由甜蜜、和谐的夫妻抚养长大的孩子对待性的态度大都积极而,在遇到问题时他们勇于面对和沟通,能接受伴侣的改进提议,也会开明地面对自己子女的性教育问题。

  而如果父母在子女20岁时还会把有暴露图片的杂志藏起来,对男女关系讳莫如深,发现儿女早恋时气得破口大骂甚至说一些带有侮辱性的字眼,这样长大的孩子对性也肯定会古板、抵触,遇见私密问题会三缄其口,绝不会主动去和伴侣沟通,更不用提寻求医生或心理专家的帮助了。

  尽管年幼时的我们并不懂得这种潜移默化的威力有多大,但就像俗话说的那样:“父母是孩子的第一个老师”,如何对待自己的爱人和家庭?亲密的关系应该是什么样子的?父母是这些方面最初也最直观的榜样,在你还没有察觉的时候,他们早就在你的那份神秘蓝图上写下了分量极重的“Chapter 1”。

  有4个你意想不到的人,他们就像隐形“执笔者”,也会在你的“蓝图”上抹上重重的色彩!

Now, Mr. Sawyer, too, will descend into the vale of years, with a landmark on which to fix his failing eyes, an era which shall serve as a date for his reminiscence, and a starting-point for his after-dinner yarns. This shall be the season when Mr. Sawyer went to the Shires. It is not yet very long ago. Perhaps it may be well to relate a few of his adventures and doings in those localities ere they lapse into the realms of fiction under the romantic colouring with which he will himself begin to paint them, when their actual freshness has worn off.

Touching Mr. Sawyer’s early history, I have collected but few particulars, not enjoying the advantage of that gentleman’s acquaintance till he had arrived at years of maturity. I gather, however, that he matriculated at Oxford, and was rusticated from that pleasant University for some breach of college discipline, sufficiently venial in itself, but imbued with a scarlet tinge in the eyes of the authorities. I have heard that he rode an Ayrshire bull across Peckwater in broad daylight, having previously attired himself in a red coat, with leathers, &c., complete, and clad the patient animal in a full suit of academicals. Also that he endeavoured to mollify his judges by apostrophising the partner of his trespass, in the words Horace puts into the mouth of Europa,
“Si quis infamem mihi nunc juvencum;”